sex is about much more than just choosing the most exciting positions though.
Good sex also depends on the type of sex we like to have, and believe me there
are hundreds of different ways in which we can achieve our sexual pleasures!
from straight sex, which is the most common
type of sexual activity, there are so many other ways in which to derive sexual
enjoyment. One of the most practiced of the sexual arts is that of
masturbation, which is done by virtually all men, and quite a few women as
well! Masturbation is a healthy, perfectly
normal thing to do, great for releasing sexual tension when we don't have
partners around. Male masturbation involves the man rubbing
his penis, or using some kind of sex toy to do that for him, until he can
achieve orgasm. Female masturbation involves the woman touching
her vagina, stroking her clitoris and inserting her fingers or sex toys into
her passage until she can bring herself off.
Foreplay is the precursor to sexual
intercourse, and is for many an essential part of good sex. Women especially
consider foreplay vital to turn up the heat enough for them to be able to
orgasm through intercourse. Foreplay is a way to slowly increase the passion and
desire to almost unbearable levels through kissing, stroking, touching, until
finally the two of you cannot take it anymore.
of the most exciting forms of foreplay is oral sex, using the mouth and tongue
to stimulate the genitals of your partner. Fellatio (sucking a guy's penis) and cunnilingus (kissing and licking a
woman's vagina) can be intensely pleasurable for both the giver and the receiver
and comes well recommended.
Gay sex and lesbian sex are other forms of sexual
pleasure, involving man on man or woman on woman. Gay sex often involves anal sex, though this is also
practiced by straight couples as well.
big issue regarding sexual pleasures is that of protected sex. Many people feel that
protected sex involving condom use is somewhat inhibiting to their sexual
pleasure, because condoms take away from the sensation that people (especially
men) feel. The sensations of unprotected sex are undoubtedly heightened
by not using a condom, but it can also be risky if you are sleeping with lots
of partners, or with someone whose sexual history is unknown to you.